Dating coaching

Dating, this whole process of trying to find the right partner(s) and to create the relationship that you truly desire can sometimes feel like a daunting, overwhelming, exhausting task. It is also a task in which staying true to yourself and letting your actions be consistently guided by a sense of self-worth may feel especially challenging. Unfortunately, when it comes to dating, often too much advice is given related to how one 'should' present themselves, how they 'should' or 'should not' behave and what image they 'should' convey – and as a result, one ends up feeling small and undeserving of true love and companionship. In this dating coaching approach, however, the emphasis is on authenticity and the power of self-esteem and self-respect, in short: Be real. Be you. You've got this. You're worth it. 

 

This coaching journey seeks to empower you, to encourage you to put yourself into the focus of your attention, and invites you to base your dating on self-awareness and self-love. It invites you to take a journey into yourself to understand what partner and what relationship you are really looking for, as well as to remove the obstacles you yourself may have unintentionally placed in the way of your ideal relationship. Ultimately, in this coaching journey, you are invited to find the key to your relationship satisfaction –and to finding the right partner(s) – through staying true to yourself, every step of the way.  

 

This dating coaching journey is for you, if

  • You feel stuck in your partner search, if you have dating app fatigue, if your continuous efforts don't seem to be bringing the expected results.

  • If you seem to be repeating the same patterns, over and over again. If, while trying to create a relationship, you often find yourself trying to deliver on the other person(s)' expectation so hard that you end up not listening to your own heart.

  • If traditional concepts of what a relationship looks like don't seem to apply to you, but you haven't been able to define for yourself what it is you are looking for or how you can go and create that.

  • If you haven't been able to move on from a difficult breakup or divorce, even though you would like to give your love life another go.

  • If you have been wishing for a relationship but dating as a whole seems so daunting and overwhelming that you haven't been able to get started and need support in taking the first steps – without having to 'force' yourself.

The journey you will take

 

In the safe space of this coaching process, you will explore what dating with authenticity means to you, you will create a plan of action that feels genuinely right, and you may also take the first couple of steps along the way. Your process will be facilitated by the 1to1 coaching sessions, as well as optional homework and fieldwork assignments. The journey will include:

Defining the vision

  • Understanding on a deeper level who and what kind of relationship you are looking for – and learning to own your emotional needs.

 

Truly understanding the current situation

  • Discovering your inner obstacles and challenges – and learning how to overcome them. Facing some of your related fears – within the safe space of this coaching journey.

  • Identifying your inner strengths and resources that you can safely build on, that will help you reach your goals. 

 

Finding the path

  • Defining your plans, strategies, and courses of action based on what is exactly right for you, and not based on what is expected.

 

Taking action

  • Starting to implement the plan – still accompanied by your coach during your initial steps.

  • Working with the actual, real challenges that come up as you start taking your first steps. Difficulties responding to messages in your dating app? Fear of the first date? Any challenge that comes up, you will explore it, understand it, learn to accept yourself more fully through it as well as to successfully manage it, in the mentorship phase of this coaching journey.

Please note that this journey aims to serve you in establishing your own, unique dating approach. It does not offer tips & tricks ("how to write a successful dating app profile"), nor is it a competence development training ("how to behave to impress on your first date") nor does it believe in universally "right" solutions. Instead, this coaching approach believes in you, and your own potential to find exactly what is right for you – and aims to serve you on your journey of discovering that for yourself. 

 

Practical details and pricing

This coaching journey includes:

  • A free, 30-minute, commitment-free first consultation to help you decide if this coaching process is right for you

  • 12 coaching sessions (online or in-person in Berlin), 75 minutes each

  • Homework and fieldwork assignments in-between the sessions, facilitating and enhancing your process even further

  • A free, 30-minute follow-up video call two months after the end of your process to check on you and your progress

The timeframe of this coaching journey:

  • Ideal duration: 4 months

  • In the first 2 months, we meet on a weekly basis, allowing for a faster deepening of your process and creating the space for transformation
    (transformation phase, 8 sessions)

  • Afterward, we meet once every 2-3 weeks to discuss your action progress, working with the actual challenges coming up along the way
    (mentorship phase, 4 sessions)

  • The duration and time frame are flexible and adaptable – at our first consultation, we can discuss the exact timing based on your needs and preferences. 

Pricing:

  • Standard price of the entire coaching journey: 1.490 EUR (currently approx. 1.770 USD)

  • Action price (applies if you make your decision and book your coaching within 1 week following our first consultation call): 1.340 EUR (approx. 1590 USD)

 

Ready to get started?

If you're ready take this important step towards your authentic dating success, it is very easy to get started:

  • Send a message on any of the contacts below. Please indicate which coaching process you are interested in (this one is called "dating coaching")

  • I will respond within 2-3 days and we will set the appointment for your first 30-minute consultation. This call is absolutely for free and requires no commitment from you.

  • During the call, you are invited to share a bit about yourself, your current situation and your objectives. You are also welcome to ask questions about the approach, the methodology used during the coaching. All practical aspects (scheduling, payment, etc.) are also clarified. 

  • After the call, if you decide to start with your process, you will be guided through the secure payment process and your first appointment will be confirmed.

  • It's that simple! If you have any questions, feel free to ask, using any of the contacts below.

Take that first step today.

Get in touch.

Claim your free, 30-min first consultation here. 

Bo Mérei

Counselor & Coach
 

Email: borisz@counselorinberlin.de

Phone: +49 175 5239861

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